A Happy Life....

Am not a well acclaimed writer to write on this issue, but I felt that these are the things that has always brought me out whenever I was going through bad phase.

Read somewhere a very good line “A man asked God, give me everything to enjoy life. Then God replied, I have given you life to enjoy everything”.

Do we really enjoy the life we have got? Many of us complain that I don’t have this in life and all that blah blah blah…. One must learn to enjoy life. You can follow the points listed below.

1.        Be happy:  Decide & always try to be cheerful for the whole day. By remaining sad nothing is going to change. Rather you will spoil your day by thinking & being in low mood. Also the people around you will be unhappy to see you like this for few of the time and will care for you & if this becomes your habit one day they will also say “ye iska hamesha ka natak hai, chodo jaane do saaley ko rone do”. So avoid this kind of behavior.  Never display your sorrows to everyone, and learn to be happy and let the people think how this person can remain cheerful all the time. 

2.       Forgive quickly: Never forget the mistake or hurt done by any one, but at the same time learn to forgive. Nothing is going to change if you hold on to something that has done the damage. Rather it will keep you in bad mood if you keep on thinking about it. It’s in your interest to forgive & move on cheerfully in life.  

3.       Optimism: As it is said “pessimism never won any battle”, be optimistic. Whenever you find yourself going through the rough phase in your life always keep in mind, “Waqt chahe accha ho ya bura wo badalta jaroor hai”. One day your time will change and you will start rocking again. So keep doing your duties with full heart & be optimistic for a positive change.  

4.      Follow your gut: In my previous post “Deciding Career” I emphasized on pursuing your hobby as career and you won’t have to work for a single day. Have courage to follow your gut, this will keep you happy & satisfied that you doing what you always wanted. 

5.       Manage your needs: Not everyone in this world is a millionaire & moves in a B.M.W. Learn to manage your needs according to your income. Don’t compare yourself with others that they are having car & am having a two wheeler. Always know the ground reality that, who you are & learn to manage with what you have in hand. 

6.      Communicate with family and friends: Family & good friends has always been the support pillar in everyone’s life. Never forget them. Try to take out time for them & share with them what’s happening in your & their life. They are the people, you have grown up with & they are the one who knows real “you”. They are people who were with you in your thick & thin. Be truthful & caring for them. 

7.       Learn to be dissatisfied: I had read many times that one must be satisfied with what they get, also in my “5” point I had mentioned the same.  But remain unsatisfied with the result you produce. Coz there is always a room for improvement. Seat goals & steadily work towards it. Once you achieve it go for higher.  If we have got satiated with invention of telephone by Graham Bell then today we wouldn’t have got wonderful invention of mobile phones. Or if you are having a two wheeler, then keep working towards acquiring a car without getting jealous of others.

Hoping the above points could make any sense in the life of the people reading this.

"DECIDING A CAREER"

I am writing my first post on my blog.

After a lot of thought process (4 years) i want something to share. The post is based on my personal experience and intend to guide or say help out youngsters to choose the right path for their future. (Unfortunately which i wasn't able to do) I want the fellow readers not to repeat the mistakes that i did. Well here it goes...

Choosing the right career can be a very daunting task especially in a world which offers an array of paths, all of which seem to be leading to a golden goal.  Careers can actually make or break one’s life, so it is important to make the right choice. And the choice which one takes is based on many parameters (friends, family, media etc.) which contribute a lot. First of all, you can’t possibly be expected to know what you want to do with the rest of your life when you’re a teenager. There are plenty of 30-year old out there who can’t answer that question, as well as fifty year old too! There are also no hard and fast rules for how many times in your life you can change careers. So how do you go about choosing the right career for you?

Deciding what you want to do at a young age can help you to focus your attention. Experts say the best place to start is by thinking about and even making a list of the things you like to do. If you like to take things apart to see how things work, you may want to be an engineer. If you like to write you can be a journalist or a sports reporter or a documentation specialist. If you enjoy working with people you might consider teaching or nursing. If you want to be outside, you might look at landscape architecture or working as a forester or park ranger. Today the curriculum of schools has also been modified so much that you can judge you interest at very early stage. A plethora of curricular & extra curricular activities which we do at school, has any one given a serious thought to it???? Some students find it interesting to go for competitive exam, but they avoid performing on stage on annual day function and vice versa.

Think about what you like to do, make a list, and be honest with yourself. Once you have determined what it is you enjoy doing, it’s time to do some research into career opportunities that require those skills. With advancement of time & evolution of technology this process of research for career opportunities has evolved a lot. Today’s youth can get every details of avenues they want choose, they have got the most powerful tool to “google” up a question and see the prospects they have in a respective field & the required skills for the same.

Pursue your hobby as career, and you will definitely excel in it coz your hobby is the thing which you love to do willingly without the peer or parents pressure. 

I will end with the dialogue of Rancho (3 idiots), “kamiyab nahi kabil bano, phir kamiyabi khud ba khud tumhare peeche aayegi” is something one can follow religiously.