A Happy Life....

Am not a well acclaimed writer to write on this issue, but I felt that these are the things that has always brought me out whenever I was going through bad phase.

Read somewhere a very good line “A man asked God, give me everything to enjoy life. Then God replied, I have given you life to enjoy everything”.

Do we really enjoy the life we have got? Many of us complain that I don’t have this in life and all that blah blah blah…. One must learn to enjoy life. You can follow the points listed below.

1.        Be happy:  Decide & always try to be cheerful for the whole day. By remaining sad nothing is going to change. Rather you will spoil your day by thinking & being in low mood. Also the people around you will be unhappy to see you like this for few of the time and will care for you & if this becomes your habit one day they will also say “ye iska hamesha ka natak hai, chodo jaane do saaley ko rone do”. So avoid this kind of behavior.  Never display your sorrows to everyone, and learn to be happy and let the people think how this person can remain cheerful all the time. 

2.       Forgive quickly: Never forget the mistake or hurt done by any one, but at the same time learn to forgive. Nothing is going to change if you hold on to something that has done the damage. Rather it will keep you in bad mood if you keep on thinking about it. It’s in your interest to forgive & move on cheerfully in life.  

3.       Optimism: As it is said “pessimism never won any battle”, be optimistic. Whenever you find yourself going through the rough phase in your life always keep in mind, “Waqt chahe accha ho ya bura wo badalta jaroor hai”. One day your time will change and you will start rocking again. So keep doing your duties with full heart & be optimistic for a positive change.  

4.      Follow your gut: In my previous post “Deciding Career” I emphasized on pursuing your hobby as career and you won’t have to work for a single day. Have courage to follow your gut, this will keep you happy & satisfied that you doing what you always wanted. 

5.       Manage your needs: Not everyone in this world is a millionaire & moves in a B.M.W. Learn to manage your needs according to your income. Don’t compare yourself with others that they are having car & am having a two wheeler. Always know the ground reality that, who you are & learn to manage with what you have in hand. 

6.      Communicate with family and friends: Family & good friends has always been the support pillar in everyone’s life. Never forget them. Try to take out time for them & share with them what’s happening in your & their life. They are the people, you have grown up with & they are the one who knows real “you”. They are people who were with you in your thick & thin. Be truthful & caring for them. 

7.       Learn to be dissatisfied: I had read many times that one must be satisfied with what they get, also in my “5” point I had mentioned the same.  But remain unsatisfied with the result you produce. Coz there is always a room for improvement. Seat goals & steadily work towards it. Once you achieve it go for higher.  If we have got satiated with invention of telephone by Graham Bell then today we wouldn’t have got wonderful invention of mobile phones. Or if you are having a two wheeler, then keep working towards acquiring a car without getting jealous of others.

Hoping the above points could make any sense in the life of the people reading this.